Friday, March 16, 2012

No Irish Need Apply

In the spirit of St Paddy's Day & to honor the Irish folk of old, here's a little history lesson about our great city of Montreal...

Montreal Irish ghetto during its "Golden Age": Griffintown was the Irish working class neighborhood near the old port and Lachine Canal. The canal was first dug in 1925-26 mostly by the Irish workers who dug the canal to bypass the St. Lawrence rapids (photo credit: public domain)
Griffintown today is a disaster. Few visitors to these desolate and cold streets of Montreal can even imagine that the area used to be the very heart of a vibrant Irish working class community called Griffintown. A community that has marked life in Montreal, Quebec and Canada and its sad decline and the eventual death. A recently published book, An Irish Heart by Dreidger makes it clear that knowing and understanding Griffintown means recognizing the hardships, failures, successes and the enormous challenges faced by waves of Irish immigrants and their descendants in their quest to build a brighter future for themselves and their families. And they did survive and thrive against all odds.

(image - Griffintown, Montreal 1896)






Digging the Lachine Canal to bypass the St Lawrence rapids. The Irish emigrants excelled in digging and the mega project provided jobs the the unskilled emigrants. The Lachine Canal, built in 1823, enlarged in 1843-48, then again 1873-74, enabled shippers to bypass the rapids along the St. Lawrence River.
The emigration of the Irish to Canada can be traced to way before the first macabre famine ships started to bring their human cargo to North America in 1847. It is therefore a misconception to assume that the first Irishmen were necessarily catholic or poor. Some Irishmen had arrived as early as in the early 1600’s, while others later had established fishing and trading communities in the Maritimes and the St. Lawrence estuary. The final decades of the 18th century had seen a number of Protestant Irishmen from the mostly Northern Counties (Modern Northern Ireland): Ulster Scots, Calvinist Presbyterians and others Protestant groups, who were themselves under some pressure from the official Anglican Church in Ireland. They had chosen to leave Ireland, despite their privileged position as opposed to the suppressed and dispossessed Catholics.





Grosse Ile was a quarantine, where thousands of famine emigrants were processed and thousands more died from hunger, typhus and cholera as they arrived from Ireland. The dead were buried on this tiny island in the St Lawrence estuary, 30 km east of Quebec. Countless others died on the coffin ships and the corpses thrown to the sea. Photo depicts the religious ceremony at the inauguration of the Celtic cross in 1909, celebrated in the 1847 cemetery. 



Paddy's Lamentation: Linda Thompson

Sometimes, it's easier said than done.

“And I told him, I said: "One day you're going to miss the subway because it's not going to come. One of these days, it's going to break down and it's not going to come around and everyone else will just wait for the next one or will take the bus, or walk, or run to the next station: they will go on with their lives. And you're not going to be able to go on with your life! You'll be standing there, in the subway station, staring at the tube. Why? Because you think that everything has to happen perfectly and on time and when you think it's going to happen! Well guess what! That's not how things happen! And you'll be the only one who's not going to be able to go on with life, just because your subway broke down. So you know what, you've got to let go, you've got to know that things don't happen the way you think they're going to happen, but that's okay, because there's always the bus, there's always the next station...you can always take a cab.” 
― C. JoyBell C.





Sometimes, it's easier said than done. 

I have recently come to a point in my life where I am finally beginning to live 'freely' again. Something I have not done for a very lone time, a little over a decade to be precise.  The overwhelming, lethargic feeling of fear haunts me today & I am finding the struggle to reach the shower a difficult one. Laziness weights heavily on my shoulders, and shame rests on my back. Even though I have accomplished something brilliant & powerful. Something many like me cannot even dream to accomplish. Something I myself, only 6 years passed never thought possible. And how strange to find myself here in this state of perplexed anxiety after conditioning myself through yoga & meditation  and proper nutrition the last two months & convincing , perhaps even tricking, myself into believing that I was in fact "ready" and "fine". Only to find myself here, unbalanced. Struggling to find that perfect sync between mind & body & soul. But solitude always was my greatest friend and foe. Thus becoming my greatest of downfalls. I want to be the mother I need to be to my sons. I want to be the wife I need to be for my husband. The daughter I need to be to my parents. The sister, to my siblings. And of course the friend. I have so many things in my present life to be grateful for, I do not have the time to waste on such thoughts of  gloom & doom & despair. I am bigger & better than this. The ability to concentrate and to use your time well is everything if you want to succeed anywhere.
But sometimes, it's just easier said than done. 

Thursday, February 2, 2012

fave foto of the week




Lukas Dean (our 2 1/2 year old) clowning around & being his cute little self with his daddy's birthday glasses ~ January 25th 2012

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Unbake a Cake

*Raw Strawberry Un-Cheese Cake*
 soaked dates + walnut (to create the "crust")
 raw soaked cashews + lemon juice + organic coconut oil + vanilla extract + honey or Agave (to disguise the cheese filling)  & topped with strawberries = BLISS!!!!



 ps; Did I mention that this fabulous indulgence is 100% GUILT & SUGAR FREE?!!! 


mmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!
Raw vegan "un-cheese" cake made & devoured by yours truly

Friday, September 16, 2011


There's a rumor going around that boys are tougher than girls. Oh please. Can you carry a 7lb baby in your stomach for 9 months and survive hours of labour? Can you cook, clean,and talk on the phone all at the same time? Can you bleed for a week and not die? Can you walk in 5 inch heels? Can you cry all night then wake up the next day like everything is okay? Remember guys, women are only helpless till their nail polish dries

what's your super power?

i heart vintage shoes





the Romarin Pumps by Charles Jourdan (made in Portugal)
Size 39
@ I<3Vintage
http://www.ilovevintage.nl/nl/vintage_pumps/48898/The-Romarin-pumpsArray

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Nate Williams ~ Illustrator Extraordinaire

A special shout-out to 'Jack-eh! Designs' for sharing her love of this most awesome illustrator, Nate Williams.  I especially appreciate it since I am ALWAYS on the look out for discovering talented artists.
Cheers Jacks! 


Nate Williams is an illustrator with a love for  hand lettering. He is inspired by nature’s inventions, unique ideas, foreign cultures  and the questions children ask & thinks the keys to creativity are curiosity, inspiration, play and discovery.


                                                     Outer Space

Jack-eh! Designs: Nate Williams, My Illustration Hero

Jack-eh! Designs: Nate Williams, My Illustration Hero: Happy Monday everyone! Hope you all had a beautiful week-end! To start off the week, I would like to share with you all one of my favorite I...

fave foto of the week



A VonGruesome~ly Awesome morning
7 am, Monday morning  ~ my three guys are off to work, school & daycare

Maison Missoni



One of the world's greatest fashion houses. Famed for its distinctive design ethos. Brilliant use of colour. Fine textiles.
The Bold style, the colour, the pizazz of Missoni
A Hotel Missoni room in Edinburgh 




Missoni for Target
in stores September 13th 2011....



Friday, September 9, 2011

I heart Montreal




                                    Home is Where the Heart is!




Thursday, September 8, 2011

Kids say the 'darndest' things!


**Zeyden Stalling @ Bedtime*

z;"mama, can I please have only one cookie before I go to bed?"
~ "No way! Sorry mister, but it's already very late & you gotta go to bed, like now!" 

Z; "But I'm a bit hungry still."
~"Well if you're really still hungry you can have a vegetable."

Z; "Can I have some potato chips?"
~ "Sorry baby, but no chips either."
Z; "But you said I could have a vegetable and a potato IS a vegetable mama!"

                                            .....Nice try wise guy.         


           Asleep before his head even hit the pillow

This mama is HOME ALONE!

So with my eldest child now in pre-kindergarten all day long & with our youngest in daycare full time as of TODAY, one word comes to mind...........................................................................................
                                ~FREEDOM~
I dedicate this song to Zeyden's pre-k teacher & Lukas' daycare workers ~ CHEERS LADIES!




                  ~Ahhhh!!!
        Feet Up, Fuzzy Slippers, Facebook & Chillin' like
                    a Villain!








                love Vee
     

Potty Training Kid Number Two


Thursday, September 8th 2011
So we've arrived at that 'wonderful' time in a young child's life, the time of reaching yet another  milestone and the start of a new chapter... *drum roll please*...  The start of potty training your stubborn toddler! Alas, the wheels are in motion & potty training Lukas Dean has slowly begun chez les VonGruesomes & I now realize why it is I was procrastinating & why I kept putting this process off with child number two. Because I hated it with child number one, and still do.
Lukas is a very strange little creature. Adorable as he may be, he is quite the tricky little bugger. He is very determined to do things on his own, yet that always depends on what the things he WANTS to do are. 
Peeing in the potty is definitely not one of them.
On the other hand, pulling off his diaper & running around the house naked is totally "his thing".... and this he does after almost EVERY single pee! Hence  costing mommy & daddy a pretty penny in diapers & training pants.
 One thing potty training my first born Zeyden has taught me is that you just can't push 'em. They will go when they are READY to go. And no, your child will not be wearing diapers or peeing his or her undies in the sixth grade. So, from now on, we just go with the flow, Lukas' flow, because that's all we can do. Our huge achievement of the week is that Lukas will now sit down on the potty, naked & 'pretend' that he is peeing. Hey, this is a big step away from putting his toys in the potty, closing the lid & then flushing. 
So I just wanted to share one of the many little joys (& headaches) in the life of a stay-at-home mom...
More to come... Stay tuned! 

Monday, September 5, 2011

fave foto of the week


My kiddos dressed up in their costumes for Halloween 2011~
Lukas is a one-eyed, two-horned, pouting, blue, people eater &
Zeyden is Optimus Prime, fearless leader of the Autobots

mama's boys ~ my three babies


“For a mother the project of raising a boy is the most fulfilling project she can hope for. She can watch him, as a child, play the games she was not allowed to play; she can invest in him her ideas, aspirations, ambitions, and values -- or whatever she has left of them; she can watch her son, who came from her flesh and whose life was sustained by her work and devotion, embody her in the world. So while the project of raising a boy is fraught with ambivalence and leads inevitably to bitterness, it is the only project that allows a woman to be -- to be through her son, to live through her son.”



I am in love with this...


Modern designs, but one foot firmly in the past - that's the retro-styled artwork by Ingela P Arrhenius. The Swedish illustrator Arrhenius takes inspiration from the 50s and 60s for her cartoon-like images, Ingela often employs cheerful characters, simple shapes, and natural color palettes. Her posters are packed with color and guaranteed to brighten up any room, child's room or not.

Limited editions, but not at a limited edition price. Choose between Bird Tree, Tivoli, Hi Stockholm, or A-Z

Each poster measures 20" x 27" ~ 30$


Meet the Robots. The robots are joining the ferm LIVING family this spring. They are charging their battery and are full of energy! They are making quite an entry as they are so adorable, especially paired with the Robot bedding (soon to be on huset).
Both pillows are 100% organic cotton and they are filled with polyester filling. ~ 32$



Mr. Small and Mr. Large Robot from FermLiving are wonderfully represented on this lovely junior bed set. The set includes an all organic comforter cover and pillow with these cool robots adorning it and green pipping. The bedding comes with a matching bag, perfect for smaller robots and cars that boys like to bring with them everywhere they go or for overnight trips to grandmas.
All organic 100% cotton bedding. Comforter cover measures 39" x 55"
Machine washable. ~ 95$